Sure, I can understand your concerns, though I think being on same server wouldn't necessarily mean you are in danger even if my wordpress site gets exploited. We are like neighbors on a street, a burglar breaking into my house doesn't necessarily mean he can break into yours. And this is not to say that I do not try to beef up my house with locks and security alarms.
Of course I would want to to keep updates to the latest, but with wordpress, themes and plugins updating every so often, how feasible is it to keep updating without any concerns for compatibility across all components?
I do agree if any site on shared host is discovered to have a big vulnerability, then Hawkhost could and should let the site owner know and the options available. At worst, the owner could bring it down first while finding solutions to the issue. No owner would appreciate straight off deletion of his site without even a chance to address the issue.
And to Brian, I really appreciate Hawkhost's flexibility to give customers what they want without imposing too much restrictions. I am already won over by this and will be submitting my web hosting order in a while.
How long does it normally take for web hosting orders to be processed?